July 7, 2006, Newsletter Issue #109: Signs Your Spouse is Cheating

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Sometimes, the knowledge that a spouse is cheating is sudden and obvious -- for instance, discovering the errant couple in mid-tryst. Other times, you may need to look for signs that your partner is including an affair in his or her daily life. Signs of a cheating spouse may include:

-- Sudden interest in appearance, including showering more often and going to the gym.

-- Unusual loss of interest in sex OR abrupt revival of sexual desire.

-- Suddenly showering you with gifts (usually motivated by guilt).

-- Picking fights with you (thus giving him or her a reason to storm out of the house and meet a lover).

-- Emotional disturbances such as moodiness, sleep problems, inattention to work or children.

-- Money being spent that isn't well accounted for.

If you see signs of a problem, ask your spouse what's going on. You'll get better results if you're calm and non-accusatory, just stating what you've seen for yourself and asking for an explanation.

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