June 2, 2006, Newsletter Issue #104: Cheating? What to do if Your Love is a Liar

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Liars may be fun for a short while -- after all, they have to be charming to get away with their games -- but people who lie to another partner may easily do it to you.
How to spot liars: There are many ways to tell if someone is lying. One is simply to listen and see if the person's stories add up. Some people spend time snooping, which can be effective in spotting warning signs of cheating, but carries its own moral problems.
In any case, the thing to do is to back away. If you discover the person you've married, with whom you are raising children, is a liar or a cheat, there may be reasons to try to work it out. If you're just dating this person, now is a perfect time to find out he's a cheating man or she's a lying woman. Just drop the relationship and move on.
It may be tempting to expose the liar, perhaps by notifying a spouse or using legal means to get back money or gifts. In most cases, this will get you more trouble than it's worth. The spouse may already know about the cheating, or may blame you. Bringing a legal case can easily cost you more than you've already lost.

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