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Not That Into You?

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What should I expect in the early stages of dating?

Not That Into You?

In the early stages of dating, it's common to dump and get dumped. You're both assessing whether or not this person is right for you, keeping your eyes open for red flags, and refining your own relationship goals.
It's polite not to waste the other person's time when you've decided something won't work out. It might be tempting just to stop taking their phone calls, but it's more mature to break up formally. Even just saying "I'm sorry, this just isn't working for me" will make the message clear.
On the other end, don't wait by the phone. Even if you like someone you've started to date, try not to start picking names for your future children until you've at least agreed to date exclusively. Don't blow off your friends or favorite activities for your new date, and remain open to the possibility that someone else may be the right one for you. When you're sure that you two are both strongly interested in one another, then it's time to reprioritize.

   

Comments

11/8/2011 12:53:51 AM
racquel said:

This is so true.I can admit I really was picking out names.big mistakes lady.this tip is true and is needed


11/8/2011 12:54:01 AM
racquel said:

This is so true.I can admit I really was picking out names.big mistakes lady.this tip is true and is needed




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