Set your own goals

People can easily get into the habit of doing what their parents tell them to do, or their bosses, or their friends, or their partners. It´s easy to begin thinking that everything you do is because you have to do it. Sit back and take some time to relax, and determine your own priorities. What is important to you? What are your goals, for work, for your home, for your relationships? Find things that meet these goals. Discuss these things with people who are important to you, but know first what *you* want, instead of talking to them and having them tell you what *they* think you want.