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People who talk about soulmates often talk about someone who will instantly know them inside and out. However, many of these people do not yet understand themselves. If you wish to have someone who can be that close to you, make sure you have taken time to really explore what makes you *you*. Know yourself, care for yourself, love yourself. You need to be confident, secure, and content with what you are before you can ask someone to accept all that you are, and before you will be truly ready to accept all that he or she is.
This is so true and vital for relationships. I have found that until you accept, love and cherish yourself you will always question the ones who love you. You are unable to fathom somoeone loving you just as you are because you yourself are incapable of doing that very thing. Knowing and loving yourself is step one to a successful relationship!