Going to the club

Me and my bf has been together since July 2009 and everything is going great. We're planning on getting married after we graduate from college. The only problem is, is that I like to go out to clubs, bars and lounges. He dosen't. He's never been and dosen't want to go to at least try and see how it is. He feels that the relationship will go down hill and that I might see something that I like. I've told him that's not the case. My question is; Is going to a club with you're boyfriend a bad idea? why or why not?

I shouldnt even answer your question....seriously if your hot then man are going to flirt with you and try to pick you up and your boy friend well notice it when guys look at you or flirt with you, so if your planning to get married i assume you love him, so i don't know what your defenetion of love is but, you need to redefine it because if you love someone you both have to give up something you like in order to please your partner i'm not even married and i know that i'm probably younger then you and i know that, i'm not trying to offend you or anything but you guys from the sound of it are going to have to put in a lot of effort in order to make your relatioonship work if you want to get married, so if i were you i would just live together for a while and see how things work out, also i'm 19 incase your wondering, but he also needs to give up somethings as well like not liking going to the club or bar, my advise is to him is that he goes and see what is like and you stop gioing to bars, and lunges and what not and just club with your boy friend.

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