What should I do?

In 2008 a gentleman started to show me in his own way that he was interested in me. I decided to play along (mate- attraction) with the hope that it would lead to a long term relationship, but the reality is that nothing has happened from the time I realized that he liked me until today. The thing is that in revisiting the past memories I realized that he has liked me since 2006, but never does anything. It is hard for him to even talk with me. It is hard for me to talk with him too cause now I like him. In order to help him I spoke to some people with the hopes of him getting closer to me but it did not work, he only did visual effects ( I would see him speaking with the people I had spoken to, but that is all). One day when he waited for me, I asked him if he wanted to have a coffee he said, 'no (why I don’t know).' Now I would like for the game (his flirtations, and his actions like waiting around for me to say hi and such) to either stop completely or we can attempt to become friends. But I do not know how to approach this situation and now I have no clue what to say or do. What can I do to increase my courage to tell him that I know he likes me and that I like him too? We volunteer together in an organization. I believe that he should be the one to make the first move (he is the man and he was the one who initiated it all I did not even notice him until he started to give me all the clues), but I feel as if he is leaving it in my hands. I think he did it this way because he works there, but I doubt his love or liking because he does not do anything to move this platonic thing ahead. We are both Christians he has a position of authority in the organization and that is why (I think) it has taken him (and me) so long to actually do something. What is your overall opinion of my love situation? Please give me advice that I can use to see if this can move forward. It is easy to give advice to someone about their situation, but hard to manage one’s own love life. Thanks in advance for your responses.

amy i want you to keep checking on this post right now im on my cell phone and busy so i cant respond to you yet but know as soon as i get a chance to go on the computer i'll answer you

Just tell him that you would like to be friends with him, or like you say "just stop everything," and move on, it sounds like he is not worth it. He should of done something when he realized that you liked him. Oh well it's his loss. You seem to be a nice person I am sure you will find someone who will love you in due season.

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