My roommate and I are good friends and lately he has been flirting with me and throwing hints that he's ready for a girlfriend. Should I respond to advances

We started out as wanting to be lovers but we decide to become roommates and see other people. Well we both have been seeing other people for about three months Now and things have been great. He's a great roomate we split everything down the middle. Lately he's been flirting with me and throwing hints that he's ready for a girlfriend. What should I do?

well if you like him the answer simple no one can tell you what to do besides you, if you like him then it shouldn't be a problem, but if you don't just let him know some how that your not interested in that type of relationship.

I agree with mystery man. I recently learned this, but if you are interested in pursuing a relationship with him then tell him of your current thoughts. If not he will never know and you will just live wondering what if? Inform him that you have had a change of opinion, since you’ve both have talked about it in the past. It should not be an issue since you are both friends. Tell him that you would like to see what can develop from your friendship (hopefully a satisfying long term relationship). Best,

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