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I know how you feel brother; I can beat your situation. My girlfriend cheated and betrayed me over this past holiday period. I was away during Christmas, New Years and my Birthday due to some necessary circumstances. While away I found out she had been cheating on me for the past year with another guy, ours was a 3 year relationship. How I found out was a twisted turn of faith, when I called her phone the other guy answer and it all went downhill from there. Anyway, I am going thru all the different stages of: Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance is a grieving period after all but, I have a solid line of friends and family that are helping me cope with this. I have to agree with the above comments, once a cheat always a cheat so do not take that person back you will only get hurt worse the second time around, if you late her back in to your life she will do it again sooner or later, she got away with doing it once and she will step out on you again because you were the weak one to take her back, so “Don’t be Weak”. Respect yourself, she was not worth it, if she did not value you or your relationship than let her go, if you let her back in, she will only use you and manipulate you with lies and deception to get what she wants, she lied to your face so now you do not know what is true or false, most likely everything she will tell you is a lie. The best thing to do “Don’t talk to her” be a man and move on, I know is painful but, talking to her will only prolong the pain. Spend time with your friends, hangout, do sports, hobbies, try new things that you have been wanting to do, if you start thinking of her go to a place where there is a lot of hot looking chicks, we all know those places in our town like: the beach, a workout park, the gym, etc. You don’t have to talk to them you are there for the eye candy to take your mind of the Ho, you will see that there is allot more women out there that are better looking, cutter, sexier and hotter than your old Ho. She is a Ho to you now, and guess what? you been there and done that, that other guy did you a favor by taking that Ho away from you, plus he is getting your sloppy seconds, a “little humor” but, is true. Now is time for you and I to put this bitches behind us a take it easy in finding the right woman out there, this time as for me I am going to be choosy as hell for I will not settle for the first piece of meat that comes along, and BTW the best revenge to all this is “Living well” once the Ho sees you and sees you doing well like losing her was holding you back from doing better things, she will eventually realize that she screw-up and that she lost a good thing with you. So go out there mingle, flirt, but take your time in healing like I am no need to rush for only time can cure a broken heart but, we can help it along by talking to other cute chicks in the mean time, I know is making me feel better. Hey we got women before, fuck the ho’s and move forward for as the others said before me, you were not born with her and there is a sea of women out there to explore and have fun with. Take care bro, stay strong, and fuck the bitch, you did not cheat so she is looser here.
